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"Carut aku letteew."

walaupun ni bukan penderaan secara fizikal, of course la kan there will be no injury, no wounds and tak akan ada scars pun. verbal abuse maybe terjadi kat semua org sama ada kita sedar atau x. ada sesetengah orang, dia akan jd down sedown2 nya bila kene condemn / perli / carut. ada sesetengahnya plak..hati batu..kene bantai cane pon..lgsung x bg efek kat depa(best kan dorg).ok..ni ada part of article pasal verbal abuse:

Verbal abuse creates emotional pain and mental anguish. It is a lie told to you or about you. Generally, verbal abuse defines people telling them what they are, what they think, their motives, and so forth. The best way to deal with a verbally abusive relationship, whether you are the target of verbal abuse or the perpetrator, is to find out everything you can about verbally abusive relationships and their dynamics. Usually one person is blaming, accusing, even name calling, and the other is defending and explaining. Most people targeted by verbal abuse explain why what they’ve just heard is not true or not okay. They explain themselves because they believe the perpetrator is rational and can hear them and the relationship will then get better. Then they usually hear more verbal abuse, for instance, “You’re too sensitive.” At that point they don’t usually realize that they have just been defined, and, therefore, verbally abused again. (Patricia Evans,2011)

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